Wednesday, June 21, 2006

Sweetie Continued

The first fuck is usually the best; it is diminishing returns after that. So, with Sweetie, that first time lasted an hour or so; and, being the first fuck, it was the most exciting – and so I nearly came a couple of times before I was ready. But, champion masturbator that I am, a brief pause was enough to restore control.


This is an important point of honor, especially the first time. After all, I wish to do all I can to highlight the difference between my lovemaking and that of the average local guy; he (from what numerous women have told me) can’t last more than a few minutes. Indeed, among my various lovers, Ellen (whom I have yet to describe), as we rested together after making love, made me laugh with her tales of the over-excitable guys she’d been with.


But the first time needs some balance; it cannot last too long since, in general, the woman will become sore, not being used to the larger size of Western men. I do not mean to boast about the size of my cock (though it is vastly flattering (and pleasingly frequent) when a new woman says ‘Wow, it’s so big’) – it’s rather that Western guys routinely are bigger than Chinese guys.


Now once I had found my rhythm, found the ideal stroke and ideal state of mind, I could have ploughed away all night. But Sweetie was getting a little pained with it, so I said that perhaps we should conclude. ‘You can control it?’ she asked, in some surprise.


She wanted me to wear a condom to come. Yeah, yeah, sure I should have been wearing one already. And I was perfectly happy to do so, though I made a joke about it – ‘.. you will have to put it on for me.’ And so she did, with her mouth, which was rather good.


The key reason I do not often wear a condom – apart from pure, naked selfishness and profligacy, I mean – is that Chinese condoms are just too small.

Again this is not a by-proxy boast about my dick size. For example, Mona’s other Western lover, the guy who I heard being gossiped about in a restaurant but have never met, also had this problem; indeed, I spent a jolly afternoon with Mona trying to find decent sized condoms for her to use with him. She liked him to use a condom when they fucked, but he did not like to. With fine hypocrisy I told her this meant he was a turd. (Though then I laughed and added, ‘But I am being hypocritical, I did not use one with you either, did I?’). He told her the local condoms were too small; that was why she wanted my help to find larger ones.


So first of all we went to the medical center in the Portman; no luck there. Then a conversation with a Durex rep by the condom rack in a Watson’s, also to no luck. Mona was a little shy about this so I did all the talking (and indeed as I did so the customers in the area skulked away, embarrassed). The rep told me this was a frequent problem with Western guys, and that as far as she knew nowhere in the city sold a bigger size. But, she said, foreign guys said such and such a line of Durex was the least bad fit; and so we bought a few packets of those.


Anyhow, back to Sweetie and her mouth. The condom being too small, it first of all threatened to come off, sitting as it was on my helmet like – well – a helmet -- so I had to pull it further down me, making it yet more tight, and thus constricting me, reducing feeling and making it rather tougher to come, meaning I had to pump her pretty hard and fast, which began to exacerbate her discomfort. But come I did, covered in sweat and roaring.


Yeah, it was a pretty good fuck, and she’s a good lover – though her oral technique could do with some improvement. Post-fuck rest, she asked me, ‘How many times do you think I came?’ I had little idea, it being hard to tell among all the various cries, some of pain, some of pleasure. But ever the vain male, I said ‘Three, four?’ It was two, she said - -‘but then some women never come at all’ she added. So two was ok.


As it was still relatively early in the evening, she wanted to go get a drink, so we did; and as we drank she chain-smoked and played with her PS2, or Gameboy, or whatever it was.


She’s a slightly unusual woman, nervous, jumpy, twitchy; smokes too much, is, I would guess, at heart rather insecure; and given we went back to my place after the bar and fucked some more, this could have spelled a future problem. Having fucked her a couple of times I was more or less done. And while she did at that time have a boyfriend, I was a little wary lest she wanted to make that night any more than the fling it was. Certainly, given that the boyfriend was, from what she said, the dull, dependable, decent type, barely an ounce of passion but reliable, sensible, and thoroughly Chinese, this was rather a risk.


But even so, the next day I idly flirted via sms message, sexy messages at that, in part to test how far I could go. It was unwise, and might have made her think the fling could be more permanent. But I did it anyway; I did it because I could.


She wanted to know more sex talk, so I told her some. At first she misunderstood ‘giving head.’ Does it mean ‘Sper on the head?’ she wondered. ‘I do not like that,’ she said.


I replied that no, it did not mean coming on her face, and that to do so was disrespectful to a woman; instead it meant the mouth on each other. Now coming on the face is of course a form of humiliation for the woman, a form a control, of belittling. Naturally it is also a turn on I would like to try. The fact she had an active enough mind to mistake my meaning that way was promising. There are some women I have been with who could barely even imagine such a thing. But she knew all about it, and even if she was not keen on it, it still showed she had a sexy mind.


All in all it was a fine, sexy fuck, with a sexy, willing woman. She had to work the day after, leaving my place around 8am, wearing, to her slight embarrassment, the same clothes she’d worn yesterday (‘My Japanese bosses will notice’ she said. I have a few horror stories to tell about the way some Japanese guys treat women).


I lent her a clean pair of my briefs and, later that day, found – to my pleasure – she’d left her panties behind. The scent on them was strong, since she was pretty highly aroused when I undressed her. I told her by SMS I wore them to bed the night after, to gauge her. She seemed to quite like it. Yeah, she had a sexy, dirty mind for sure.



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24 comments:

Anonymous said...

So you're saying that any western guy planning a move to Shanghai should come armed to the teeth with condoms? ... check.

Danny said...

Hi Chinabounder, it's a good read, keep it coming (er, I mean, keep on writing).

You've gotta add some photos! Anonymous stuff - shoulders down, just the legs, etc. I'd love to see a little of the lovely legendary Ceecee!

ChinaBounder said...

So you're saying that any western guy planning a move to Shanghai should come armed to the teeth with condoms? ... check.


Yes. At the moment it is impossible to get decent-sized condoms here. For Shanghai, condoms are a matter of huge embarrassment. Earlier this year the leaders of certain Chinese universities refused to allow condom machines to be installed on campus since they `promoted immorality.’ Given such an ignorant attitude, you can see why no-one likes to talk about them, much less discuss comparative cock size. The situation might change (after all, about a year ago the shops started selling lube (which the Western guy in Shanghai will need)) – but I don’t hold out much hope. Sex, in China, is still fundamentally something shameful.

You've gotta add some photos!

I am not sure about that. Posting pictures, even `anonymous’ ones, seems a far more fundamental abuse than just writing about the women I am involved with. Sure, I do have a sneaking wish to put up such pictures, as a boast of my prowess; but the better part of me (what little fraction that is) counsels against it. Text is just text, but a picture is a far more real sign of the woman.

When I am with a woman I am with her wholeheartedly, totally involved in her uniqueness, her self. She is not just a conquest to me; she is an individual. Taking a photo of her, to put on the blog, would be mendacious; demeaning to her and false to me, making the boast more important than the moment.

Anonymous said...

Absolutely take some condoms from home before you go to China or anywhere in asia for that matter. The first time I used a chinese condom by dick looked like hamburger afterwards. A heathly supply of Trojans will make things a lot more enjoyable.
In a way I am glad to see my theory on western cock s in China confirmed. I thought it was just me.

peter said...

the cock size topic always makes me laugh. western chicks in shanghai get pissed off with white guys going on about that. they say it's not true. so i ask, 'how many asian guys you been with?' then it goes downhill from there. ;-)

to be fair, race isn't the issue. it's all proportionate to overall body size. guys who've grown up in china happen to be smaller. but a huaqiao who's grown up in north america ... well, the girls will have to tell me about that.

then again, much more important than an inch here or there is who's attached to it. that's where non-local guys win hands down (or pants down!). it's the touches and oral and respectful intimate movements and attitude during sex that makes the real positive difference. a guy (with an eager tongue) who helps a woman become in bed who she really wants to be is always going to win the better lover award in her mind. and that's where many of us whiteys have the head start.

as for condom size, who uses condoms in shanghai anyway? (ha, only joking).

Anonymous said...

i wanna fook sum chinese whores.
how many canadian dollars?

ChinaBounder said...

i wanna fook sum chinese whores.

Poltroon.

Anonymous said...

BTW, Chinese girls are after girth not length!

Wendy said...

Check out this picture of a Chinese guy at: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/0903/demonesque/nakey/Posted/f04.jpg

peter said...

hey wendy. great photo. but i know him and he's actually only 4ft tall, which makes that cock of his about 3" long. but hey, if that's what you like ;-)

Wendy said...

Hey Peter, I didn't know that you're into guys; that's awesome! How about the lad on this picture http://img.photobucket.com/albums/0903/demonesque/nakey/Posted/0e93c7ab.jpg

I bet you also know him and had also seen his cock ;-)

peter said...

wendy, you sound like you need to get laid. and if you're a white woman in china, i totally understand where your frustration is coming from. you must have looked long and hard for those pics (puns?). trust me - they're rarities.

i've always wondered why white women in china, when they discover how it works, don't just fuck off to some beautiful south pacific island where the guys are all big, tan and would love to fuck white women (i'm sure such a place exists)...

instead of being a whiny jealous buzz in the background of white guys' unbridled enjoyment of a paradise of sorts.

Wendy said...

Peter, I understand it must be tough for a frustrated gay man like you in an authoritarian society. I know you just want me to keep posting these kinds of pictures for you, so here's another one for you https://home.comcast.net/~tyboi1/livejournal/290.jpg Never let it be said that Wendy is not nice to you. I can tell how much you liked the previous picture I posted, I didn't know you're such a wanker ;-) No need to thank me, these pictures are easy to find.

You have to learn how to find these pictures yourself, there are loads of them. Have someone teach you how to use the search engines (like Google) available on the Internet, you can start by learning how to use the mouse, like what a left click is versus a right click. I am assuming that you can tell your left from your right, or am I giving you too much credit?

You have to tell me more about how your experiences in this south pacific island paradise that you write about and how the men there fucked you silly ;-) Do you have to pay the men extra because you're gay? Do you like to be on top or bottom? Did you freak the men out with the kinds of things that you would like to do to them?

peter said...

oooh, we can all tell you're hurting, wendy...

Wendy said...

you're the only one hurting here, Peter...

Anonymous said...

Enjoy all the stages of AIDS.

Anonymous said...

I wanna fuck your mother,your grand mother, your sisiter,your girfriends,your every women in your family. be carfully some one wanna cut your cock!!!

Anonymous said...

I wanna fuck your mother,your grand mother, your sisiter,your girfriends,your every women in your family. be carfully some one wanna cut your cock!!!

Anonymous said...

chinabonder, you are bastard, son of bitch

Huang said...

bastard, son of bitch

Max said...

chinabounder, you're my hero. Greetings from Seoul.

shitonme said...

Oei mate,

If you want, I can post some condoms to u from England, just gotta find a way for you to send me your address.

Anonymous said...

Not to aid you - but if you proclaim to be a good lover, you really should be able to tell when/if a woman comes. As in, first, you should care. It seems to me, from your posts, that you don't care that much, as it is not a main concern of yours at all in your posts. You talk mainly about your own pleasure. But just like with a guy, it makes a huge difference in the woman's enjoyment whether or not she comes during an encounter. But you've already admitted that you're selfish. And I supposed if you can still find women to put up with that... well, whatever works for you all.

The reason I don't like you, based on what you write, in case you're wondering, is because I find how calculating you are repulsive.

gralinnk said...

kudos to the person above.