tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post2170238164566134243..comments2024-02-18T11:58:27.009+00:00Comments on Sex and Shanghai / 欲望上海: So, China Dirt #1ChinaBounder's email:http://www.blogger.com/profile/00814830892013188434noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-5430457377573039562009-11-29T00:39:36.439+00:002009-11-29T00:39:36.439+00:00what a fucking faggot.
have fun being jobless back...what a fucking faggot.<br />have fun being jobless back homeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-85602032756375055962008-09-07T11:16:00.000+00:002008-09-07T11:16:00.000+00:00You forgot about the foreign importers importing f...You forgot about the foreign importers importing from china manufacturers. I recently got shafted in one of these cases. <BR/><BR/>Ordered an ice cream machine that never worked since the first day it got delivered and had no way to get a refund or having it fixed even though its supposedly under warranty.gelatoadventureshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01500614594156619300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-76226548744983591852008-07-15T00:11:00.000+00:002008-07-15T00:11:00.000+00:00welcome back! Let the new semester begin.welcome back! Let the new semester begin.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-42112114390912102322008-07-14T17:50:00.000+00:002008-07-14T17:50:00.000+00:00You guys really take yourself waaaay to serious. E...You guys really take yourself waaaay to serious. Expat in Shanghai? Wow...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-81105134635353029132008-07-09T10:58:00.000+00:002008-07-09T10:58:00.000+00:00Hi there, Really appreciate your courage as a man ...Hi there, <BR/><BR/>Really appreciate your courage as a man on paper as I suspect men will nenver ever say things like that in real life. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for the courage to set thing straight for the females(foreign or Chinese). I guess now it's their choice in terms of how to use this information to their advantage (or not).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-67189446593633881052008-03-27T02:33:00.000+00:002008-03-27T02:33:00.000+00:00Chinabounder, I'm a woman from China. Like Shangh...Chinabounder, I'm a woman from China. Like Shanghai Baby said, "I love your blog", even though I read only a few sentences from a couple of your articles...because this is the funniest thing I've read the whole day. Gee, I mean, dude, get a life. I don't give a shit what chinadirt is all about, but it's so funny how seriously you took it. What shocked me was a shameless piece of sh*t could get mad. I applaud you.<BR/><BR/>You damn well know what a piece of sh*t you are, and deep down you're in denial. Funnier thing is what the Don guy said "truly 'a man' by his own lights". Oh, this is so hilarious! You guys are nothing but legend on your own mind. Oh this is so funny! "Yes, sure, we treat Chinese women like shit in the large of it, but that is not because we are failed men. It is because we are men. Just men; and China allows the inner nature that every man holds to come to the surface." This is rationalization, and you know it!<BR/><BR/>Usually when I read something like this, I just laugh at it. It's degrading even to address you in the beginning of this message. In China, we usually think of Englishmen as gentlemen. One day, I mentioned that to my husband, who is not from China. He laughed and said, "we never think of them as gentlemen but those who have body odor because they don't take showers." hmm...I wonder if those Chinese women asked you to take a shower before you guys f*ck. <BR/><BR/>My husband wouldn't be proud of me for the strong words I used.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-41065852242111611682008-03-01T13:36:00.000+00:002008-03-01T13:36:00.000+00:00Anonymous said ‘…..however seeing that he's delete...<STRONG>Anonymous</STRONG> said<EM> ‘…..however seeing that he's deleted the comments from the past month..’</EM><BR/><BR/><BR/>I delete no comments except advertising.ChinaBounder's email:https://www.blogger.com/profile/00814830892013188434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-54775169513650421682008-02-29T00:52:00.000+00:002008-02-29T00:52:00.000+00:00I used to at least respect that I thought Chinabou...I used to at least respect that I thought Chinabounder was open to truth and being brutally honest, however seeing that he's deleted the comments from the past month, I think he's just an insecure little boy who plays 'earmuffs' when he doesn't like what he hears.<BR/><BR/>It doesn't take a genius to figure out that a lot of romantic success by expats here has nothing to do with you, but the fact that some or many Asians have White worship, self hate, and inferiority complex. This is why there are so many disporportionately attractive pairs with a young girl whose face is beaming like she won a prize or something, and a White guy who is most likely fat, old, bald, wimpy, awkward, or a social reject from his home nation. Some or many of you are social predators taking advantage of Asians who are obsessed with branding and prestige (and brainwashed by the global media machine the 'brands' Whites as the best).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-41001787201832454692008-02-29T00:48:00.000+00:002008-02-29T00:48:00.000+00:00Are Asian men more sexist and chauvinistic compare...Are Asian men more sexist and chauvinistic compared to Middle Eastern, Latin, Anglo/American, Jewish orthodox, or Christian fundamentalist men?<BR/><BR/>In my opinion, yes Asian countries, just like all countries in the world, have gender problems and issues that go back a long time in many cultures. However, Western mass media constantly stereotypes, and thus influences millions, on the idea that Asian men are somehow way more sexist or chauvinist or oppressive than the average male.<BR/><BR/>This gives some White males what I call 'White Knight' syndrome, and also gives some self-hating, brainwashed Asian girls a convenient excuse to hide their White worship. Hell, almost all of Uncle Tom Amy Tan's books, like 'Joy Luck Club', pander to White audiences by reinforcing this sexist oppressive stereotype, and paint White men as the saviors. 'Miss Saigon' is another example. It's like feminism gone totally byserk because it's mixed in with White worship and Asian men bashing, which feminists of other typically cultures don't do (specifically blame their culture of men instead of see it as a global gender issue across many cultures). For example, when's the last major movie you saw by a Middle Eastern feminist that totally bashes M.E. men, and where all the women marry White guys?<BR/><BR/>From my own personal experience which is based on mostly Chinese families, I think the myth is false. In Asia, most TV commercials cater to women, you never see advertisements for things that guys like, most of the movies are chick flicks or soap opera type stories, and all entertainment has a 'cutesy' girly feel and content that caters to females. I've also seen almost all Chinese moms totally boss and control their sons, and totally control their husbands, and most women control almost all the money in the household. People who've been to places like Shanghai know that most men do all the cooking and cleaning, the women act like princesses.<BR/><BR/>In Chinese culture, women never change their last names, every Chinese woman I met who was addressed in Mandarin was to her Maiden name, never the husband's last name like in Western society. Chinese women on a per capita basis work more than White women. Chinese women are often-times depicted as strong heroines in Chinese films, whereas White women are basically the sex interest in most White movies.<BR/><BR/>I will say I don’t know enough about Japan to deny that they may be sexist, however I would contend that that it’s related to them emulating Western/White sexism and Western chauvinism going all the way back to the days of Meiji Restoration and emulating Whites (and not catching as much as much after the West changed due to feminism).<BR/><BR/>Additionally, some superiority complex White Knights bring up foot binding, as evidence of horrible Asian male oppression. Yet when is the last time you heard White men accused of being sexist and oppressive for tight suffocating corsets, or for metal chastity belts, or even painful plastic surgery in modern times? Foot binding was sad, but just like with beauty treatments White women used to do and still do, these kinds of practices are really pushed by other women, thinking that's what men like (which is a global gender issue, not a specifically 'horrible Asian men' issue).<BR/><BR/>Finally, consider animal mating. Men are biologically programmed to spread their seed; a male-dominated culture will have men with more multiple partners without childrearing responsibility. A female dominated culture will have less 'player mentality' and more emphasis on childrearing. Now, of all the cultures in the world, do Asian cultures fit the former or latter? This paragraph is also related to what a poster name kwak said in a different thread, about Asian women in Asia seeming more romantically naive; if this is true, I believe it is because there is less 'player mentality' in Asia compared to the West.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-57814817854467044672008-01-11T18:53:00.000+00:002008-01-11T18:53:00.000+00:00Chinadirt" is a retarded wanker! Just an ordinary ...Chinadirt" is a retarded wanker! Just an ordinary dude got sick in his fucked up head!real siyan shanghaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05861311274121531734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-82652260243853745792008-01-07T13:36:00.000+00:002008-01-07T13:36:00.000+00:00Loved the Lord Jim quotation, I first read it when...Loved the Lord Jim quotation, I first read it when I was over there and he nailed the whole expat thing (not only in China) pretty much head on. There are also plenty of 'Jims' in China who seem to take everything on themselves, I suppose that both types are a reflection of the basic childishness of expat life, For myself, I always tried to avoid falling into either category, not always successfully. <BR/><BR/>Congratulations on being back, I look forward to seeing more posts.Gilman Grundyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06607416440240634159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-81308965149072654882007-12-09T15:26:00.000+00:002007-12-09T15:26:00.000+00:00You are a very lucky guy in Shanghai ! Most of the...You are a very lucky guy in Shanghai ! Most of the Hong Kong girls are awfully boring, ugly and extremely bad in bed. I couldn't believe your stories until I went to Shanghai and experience the huge difference with HK. HK has probably the worst women in Asia, but attracts some of the best and brightest from the western world... Is there any justice in this world :)<BR/><BR/>Companies should move their headquarters and western staff to Shanghai ASAP and leave this HK hell.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-69824649859404845982007-12-07T11:37:00.000+00:002007-12-07T11:37:00.000+00:00Hi Chinabounder, I'm a woman... and I love your bl...Hi Chinabounder, <BR/>I'm a woman... and I love your blog! I no longer live in Shanghai now. <BR/>Don't be too harsh on Chinadirt though, what they meant was that many expat guys, who can't manage to get laid in their home countries, find it much easier in China: Chinese women don't really pay attention to good looks or age when you have money and a passport.Hélènehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00306341950216724973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-9042572220317242022007-12-07T08:01:00.000+00:002007-12-07T08:01:00.000+00:00Isn't it amazing how many feeble-brained humans ar...Isn't it amazing how many feeble-brained humans are there in this world?<BR/><BR/>And even more amazing how there is so few beautiful minds like you..<BR/><BR/>Keep up the wonderful job, and remember to stay anonymous and safe..<BR/><BR/>And if I may add,<BR/>I've been in your position, of course less in aptitude, but I know, or at least I think I know, the feeling..<BR/><BR/>And I can tell you with great confidence, there is no worse feeling than if you back up from doing what you have been fighting for, and believed in..<BR/><BR/>The regretful aftermath will be devastating.<BR/><BR/>So basically, never stop and keep this up. This world needs more intelligent people like you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-66235460526619331732007-11-30T01:59:00.000+00:002007-11-30T01:59:00.000+00:00good to see you back. Don't let anyone intimidate ...good to see you back. Don't let anyone intimidate you into stopping your posts.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for introducing me to China Dirt. I wouldn't have found it otherwise. I have to agree it's a great example of what sad, pitiable individuals do when faced with a dating situation they don't like - blame somebody else!Martin G Fosterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07025298705339785765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-52596513944808031812007-11-29T05:54:00.000+00:002007-11-29T05:54:00.000+00:00keep up the good work. dont worry about those self...keep up the good work. dont worry about those self-righteous bastards and indignant women, there are at least half a million hong kong and taiwan expat guys working in China who agree with you...and get it fresh every week, paid or otherwise. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-10232990717120506352007-11-19T21:16:00.000+00:002007-11-19T21:16:00.000+00:00wow you are a little bitch, bitching and moaning a...wow you are a little bitch, bitching and moaning about social politics just because some stupid little Chinamen are chasing after you. It makes you a REAL humanitarian bitching and moaning on an internet blog behind a proxy so these little Chinamen can't beat you with nun chucks. Get out there are tell it like it is outside instead of hiding behind a blog you worthless shit.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-51989771974789798312007-11-18T22:51:00.000+00:002007-11-18T22:51:00.000+00:00Huh. I thought the wacky Chinese nationalists had ...Huh. I thought the wacky Chinese nationalists had chased you off for good.<BR/><BR/>Please write more of this kind of stuff and less of the overt pornography. This stuff is interesting and worth considering; the other stuff not so much.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-48807761734979401662007-11-17T17:12:00.000+00:002007-11-17T17:12:00.000+00:00Hey HeyWelcome back.Hey Hey<BR/><BR/>Welcome back.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-40091271139490132592007-11-16T04:45:00.000+00:002007-11-16T04:45:00.000+00:00Lol, hey let the Females hate on you, deep down in...Lol, hey let the Females hate on you, deep down inside of them, they have deep founding love for you. :)<BR/><BR/>Keep up the good Blogging!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-60051776522488971312007-11-12T07:52:00.000+00:002007-11-12T07:52:00.000+00:00Great quote from Conrad, but I couldn't read the s...Great quote from Conrad, but I couldn't read the stories from the expat women. My brain started hurting by the third sentence.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-7433730557438999022007-11-12T05:09:00.000+00:002007-11-12T05:09:00.000+00:00u are fucking stupid man. You are shit.u are fucking stupid man. You are shit.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27846796.post-33601496831046926782007-11-10T20:20:00.000+00:002007-11-10T20:20:00.000+00:00This is good stuff, man. I read some of the angry...This is good stuff, man. I read some of the angry reactions to you, and my feeling was much the same as yours. The world is full of critical idealists, but I have gotten to know a few people like that and the odds are that for every one who is truly "a man" by his own lights and can look with honest disdain on another who indulges his inner beast, there are ten more who wax superior mostly because they do not yet know themselves.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16090153485822745036noreply@blogger.com